Falling in and out of love is a difficult thing. Despite all you hear about love coming as easy as the air we breath and all you see in movies, where the actors fall in love over a romantic song, it is a little more complicated. Now, may be you have found the right person, you need to be courageous enough to tell them your feelings. And with all the mustered courage, you need to get their nod. Assuming you are above the initial stage and are happily together, the real trouble comes. You find out about each other, you learn. You will know there are things about the other person you don’t really approve of. May be , just may be, you have understood that this was an infatuation, not love. Then what? You fall out of love and it is more painful than it sounds.
But all that heart ache and mental trauma could be saved. Of course, there is no step-by-step procedure to fall in love, there are ways you could ensure that the person you’re going out with is just the right person for you. Read on...
1.Looking for your perfect match, but whom are you really looking for?
But all that heart ache and mental trauma could be saved. Of course, there is no step-by-step procedure to fall in love, there are ways you could ensure that the person you’re going out with is just the right person for you. Read on...
1.Looking for your perfect match, but whom are you really looking for?
Your perfect match will never show up in front of you persuasively
saying “Hey, I am your chosen one, your better half, your perfect
match…” This is a Hollywood or Bollywood movie rarely coming true. So
get realistic and go hunting! But before that grab a pen…
Make a strategy. Yes, destiny is crucial, but a strategy is also
effective. The most efficient one is to be realistic in your
expectations.Nobody is perfect, but there is somebody perfect for you
out there, waiting to meet and love you.
Make a call. Listen to all the advice you can get from friends, books or
online, but in the end it is entirely your call.Listen to your heart,
it will tell you if you have found the perfect match.
2. Where to find your perfect match
There are few couples formed after they simply bumped into each other
and fell in love at first sight. Love takes time, reciprocity and
compatibility, but where can you find your perfect match? Never too far
from home…
Ask your friends or parents. Yes, they might know you well enough to
realise what you need from a partner. Especially your older friends or
your parents might have the wisdom and the life experience to make
relevant suggestions.
Look around. It could be someone from work or school; it could be your
gym or yoga mate, that smiley face from the library or even your best
friend…
Go online. The Internet proved to be a very prolific match maker. Find
some safe sites, with a good reputation and search that profile matching
your deepest dreams. But don’t rush to meet that smiley avatar in
person! Stay online for a while and build a relationship based on
communication. If something goes wrong, you can always go offline…